Ball of confusion

I’ll list the incidents, you comment, I’ll try to draw a conclusion:

1. “The Rapper” had a video shoot.
2. He acknowledged me as soon as I got there. With hugs and kisses “ I am so glad you came, I didn’t think you were coming”
3. The midget was there
4. EVERY time he had a free second he found me and pulled me close with kisses and hugs and small talk.
5. The midget was fixing his hair between shots and he sent her behind the scenes to get his “wardrobe change”.
6. The midget knew all of his friends and family.
7. When the girls did solo dance shoots, the midget was all over him and she was the only one who did it twice.
8. Some girls apologized to her after the solo shots, on like a “Girl, you know this is just for the video, I am not trying to steal your man” thing.
9. Whenever he was on me the midget and her friends were looking and rolling their eyes...BITCHES!
10. He didn’t show the midget any affection.

What does this all mean?

1. Who am I to him?
2. Who is the midget?
3. Why is he all over me around his friends, family, business people (more than when we are alone)?

After the shoot he called me and I made a joke about being his wife. He went on a trip about “You need to understand how things look from my eyes, everybody is getting antsy, trying to figure out their roles in my life, it’s hard for me to judge what’s real and what’s not, you are the only person I call when I get a second and you don’t seem to appreciate that, you should know how I feel about you.” I do notice that he always calls me and lets me know his every move. I notice how affectionate he is in public. But he can’t half-way do me while he determines if I am a gold-digger. That’s unfair; some women are after his money (or potential money). But not me. He better hope he doesn’t lose me while he is trying to figure what’s real.