I don't know how to take this

A very big part of my personality is understanding all of the people (motives and personality) and situations around me. It is the most uncomfortable feeling for me to let anything go over my head. Which is why I am so distraught right now. See, I talked to Hero yesterday. I called him when I was feeling sad. I left a msg and he called back. He consoled me about my situation and everything went smooth. I could tell from his word choice and tone that he misses me. After I pulled that ghetto baby mama (even though I don’t have kids) drama, I thought he was done with me. I cannot fathom why he let that slide, especially so quickly. My guesses are –

1. the ex-girlfriend is less than important to him,
2. he thinks I am crazy and is scared of what I might do,
3. he wants to play me out by talking to both of us or hopefully,
4. he misses and loves me without regard just as I do him.

Whatever the case is, I really wanna know. Hero, what are you doing with my heart?